It's not unusual for older generations to balk slightly at the idea of leaving your son intact. My parents were a little surprised when I told them I was planning on leaving our sons intact, but they eventually left it alone and respected our decision to leave my sons whole. You'll probably find that a lot of parenting decisions you make will be questioned by other people, especially those that are of a different generation. It's best to simply say "Thanks for the advice, but we've made a decision that we're comfortable with", and then move on. If you like, you can use it as an opportunity to educate them with the information that you have, but sometimes, it's a lost cause. You'll have to decide whether or not that's worth it. Generally, with my younger friends, I'll get into my reasons for leaving my sons intact. With people who are older, I don't usually bother so much. They tend to be set in their ways.
I think you're making a good decision by leaving your son whole. Circumcision really is not necessary, and it should be his choice, since it's his penis. Roughly 80% of men in the world are intact. It's the norm - circumcision is the exception.
The following is directed at SteveX and NOT the asker of this question:
"Take a look at this video, where the very hot Olivia Munn talks about how gross
uncircumcised penises are:"
What the? Why should someone cut off a part of their child's body because that woman finds intact (uncircumcised is not the proper term) penises gross? Should I pierce my daughter's clitoris because some guy makes a video saying how hot they are? Should I have her labia trimmed down or altered if someone else says that labia of a certain size are nasty? No. That's disgusting and disturbing. I'm not going to alter my child's body because of what some people find sexually unattractive. My child can make that choice for themselves later in life, and I truly hope that they and their partners base their relationships - sexual and otherwise - on far more than such shallow standards.
If you want a good read, check out this page full of men - some famous - who resent being circumcised as infants: http://www.circumstitions.com/Resent.html It's a long page.
Seriously, SteveX - I've had it with your ridiculous rants. They make no sense. I was seriously relieved when someone pretending to be you posted that you regretted being circumcised and having your sons circumcised. I'm disgusted and disappointed that you're still your old self.
Wow, I didn't realize there was another one - PeterH.
"Most of these anti circ rants come from Europeans who are mostly anti circ to begin with."
Um, actually, no they're not. A few are. I'm from the US. Even if they are European, so what? The majority of the world is intact, and they have fewer infections than we have in the US. What does that tell you?
The American Cancer Society does NOT recommend routine circumcision as an effective means of preventing penile cancer, and I quote:
"The current consensus of most experts is that circumcision should not be recommended as a prevention strategy for penile cancer."
From this link: http://www.circinfosite.com/7.html
I think people (mainly in the US) just completely miss the point that intactivists are trying to make. It's about human rights and bodily integrity. No one should the right to remove a healthy, fully functioning organ from another person's body without their consent. The risks of circumcision far outweigh the benefits, and this has been proven by multiple studies. The risks of hemorrhage, infection, shock, and death far outweigh any benefits of cleanliness (we have soap and water, people), reduced risk of UTIs (there's a 2% risk of surgical complications and only a 1% chance of a UTI, even less if the foreskin is not retracted), reduced rate of STDs (condoms and safe sex - ever heard of them? They're WAY less risky than surgery), or penile cancer (it's extremely rare, and like I said above, the American Cancer Society doesn't recommend circ'ing to prevent it), among other things.
Any reason having anything to do with sexual preferences or appearances are just plain shallow and ridiculous. No one should have their body altered per their parents' request purely for those reasons. I wouldn't have my daughter's labia altered because "men like small, dainty labia", or some stupid reason like that. The whole "women prefer circumcised penises" thing is stupid, shallow, and ridiculous. 85% of the developed world is intact. You'd think there would be a serious population problem if women really and truly didn't like them, don't you think? Besides - I hope my sons find women (or men) that care for them as people and partners - not their penises. Their love should transcend the state of one another's genitals, I should hope. I know I certainly don't love my husband purely because of the condition of his penis.
The reason we have a very satisfying sex life has little to do with his foreskin (or lack thereof), either. It has everything to do with our love for each other, our deep, wonderful sexual chemistry, the intimacy we share, the bond between us that only grows stronger with time, and respect for each other's feelings and desires.
"You dont just 'wash away' STDs"
Duh. Of course you don't. You can, however, practice smart, safe sexual decisions. C'mon. Is it really that hard to wrap it?