Question:
Prenatal Breastfeeding Education. Answer Whether or Not You BF,Please.(Repost:Don't answer if you already did)?
1970-01-01 00:00:00 UTC
Prenatal Breastfeeding Education. Answer Whether or Not You BF,Please.(Repost:Don't answer if you already did)?
21 answers:
Vada Grace's Mommy
2009-10-16 14:44:15 UTC
When you were pregnant, how much did your OB or midwife talk to you about breastfeeding?

I do believe there was a "breast is best" lecture or two, but nothing memorable.



Did the office have an LC? What did she do?

I do not believe so, if there was I was not informed of her. The hospital I delivered at did have LC's available and were very helpful. They were there to talk and even helps with feedings in the AM while I was there. I did feel intimidated by them a bit, especially with the pacifier issue. They are against it and the nurse was for it. My baby liked to suck so I did not know what to do. The Lc was great at teaching attachment and how to hold the baby. They were also "hands on," which I found helpful but others may find creepy.





If there was a class, were you encouraged to attend, or just told (or read on the little sign by the check-out desk) that it was available?

I do not remember a class for breastfeeding being advertised, only one for labor and delivery. I looked on the website for the suggested class and found one for breast feeding. Also, the L&D class highly recommended BF and the BF class.



Were you given any written information? (Books? Pamphlets?)

I do not think the OB gave out this info, but the L&D class and pediatrician did. The hospital gave a booklet that was the same one as the one given in the BF class.



If you did get information from the OB, did it sway your choices in any way? Why or why not?

No, I was more interested in support. My family did not breastfeed so I know I could not go to them for help. I was glad to get the info for my husband and myself through the class. I also was told of the support people available, I have not gone to them yet, but i like knowing they are there.



I live in Columbus, Ohio. I give you the city because I think that it is more progressive than other areas. I also think I stumbled on a good hospital system.
♪♫Mommy A♫♪
2009-10-16 13:44:44 UTC
When you were pregnant, how much did your OB or midwife talk to you about breastfeeding?

*little or none -- I honestly don't remember... but there was definitely no stressing of the importance of BF



Did the office have an LC? What did she do?

*no



If there was a class, were you encouraged to attend, or just told (or read on the little sign by the check-out desk) that it was available?

*n/a



Were you given any written information? (Books? Pamphlets?)

* there was a folder filled with info at the first and second trimester milestones... so much that it very well could have been in there but I either didn't look at it or didn't notice it





If you did get information from the OB, did it sway your choices in any way? Why or why not?

*I can't say.. I had already made up my mind -- I didn't really know how wonderful it is for the baby until after I had already been BF for a few months --- I just that that was 'what you do'... naturally.



Where do you live? (State or Country only is fine.)

near Chattanooga, TN



The point being, we tend to think of breastfeeding issues as being something the pediatrician deals with, and the hospital LC. But of course most women have made their choice long before the baby arrives. So could OBs be doing more to educate their patients and help them make knowlegable choices? And help the women who DO choose to breastfeed be more likely to succeed?



*** I DO wish there were more advocates. I, being an advocate myself, would like to see a decrease in the number of women who automatically FF without even giving BF a chance.
jl2829
2009-10-16 17:16:35 UTC
I've had 3 kids, in 3 different states so I had 3 OBGYN's. I nursed #1 for 3 months, formula fed #2, #3 is still being nursed at 13 months.



When you were pregnant, how much did your OB or midwife talk to you about breastfeeding?

None of them did.



Did the office have an LC? What did she do?

None of them did.



If there was a class, were you encouraged to attend, or just told (or read on the little sign by the check-out desk) that it was available?

I was told by the hospital where baby #3 was born that a breastfeeding class was available when I called to inquire about a hospital tour.



Were you given any written information? (Books? Pamphlets?)

NO.



If you did get information from the OB, did it sway your choices in any way? Why or why not?

I think I would have nursed #1 longer had I rec'd info before she was born and taken a BF class.



Where do you live? (State or Country only is fine.)

Baby #1 born in Nebraska

Baby #2 born in New Jersey

Baby #3 born in California

I no longer live in any of these states!



I think the bottom line in reading all these responses is that had our OBGYN's provided some sort of education on BF'ing, some of us could have been more successul at it. Really, you do have to do your own research on the subject and then make your choice. No one tells you that Yes for the first 6 weeks it can be really hard, but then the rest of your nursing career will be a piece of cake so just hang in there!!! Sometimes it can come down to mind over matter....Dr. Sears said in his BF'ing book that if you believe you will be successful at nursing than you will be. Why isn't this the kind of things we hear from our OBGYN??
sylvia
2009-10-16 13:42:49 UTC
When you were pregnant, how much did your OB or midwife talk to you about breastfeeding?



Quite a bit, actually. My midwife was willing to answer lots of questions throughout my pregnancy.



Did the office have an LC? What did she do?



No, there was no office LC.



If there was a class, were you encouraged to attend, or just told (or read on the little sign by the check-out desk) that it was available?



I was informed of the class and its curriculum,



Were you given any written information? (Books? Pamphlets?)



Pamphlets.



If you did get information from the OB, did it sway your choices in any way? Why or why not?



It did not. It took me a long time to decide whether or not I was going to BF. Obviously, I wanted to educate myself on both sides of the issue as much as possible. This was actually the issue that caused me the most stress throughout my pregnancy. In the end, I chose not to breastfeed. There were several reasons for my decision: I knew I was only going to be able to take six weeks off from work, and then I needed to return, full-time. I also don't have a job where I can schedule a set block of time aside to pump on a daily basis. I know that it takes weeks to establish a GOOD nursing routine. And that was all I had, a few weeks. And it just seemed that I was going to double my (and my son's!!) stress - establish a routine, then return to work, start my son in day care, and then introduce a bottle.



I know that a lot of people out there will criticize me for this, and that there are a lot of people who may not necessarily approve. But the thing is, I made the decision that worked the best for my family. And at the end of the day, I believe that being able to be a happy, focused mommy counts for a lot.



Where do you live? (State or Country only is fine.)



US
Mommy!
2009-10-16 15:39:04 UTC
I attempted







When you were pregnant, how much did your OB or midwife talk to you about breastfeeding? no he just asked me which i was doing formula or breastfeeding



Did the office have an LC? What did she do?

no they didnt



If there was a class, were you encouraged to attend, or just told (or read on the little sign by the check-out desk) that it was available?there are no classes here



Were you given any written information? (Books? Pamphlets?)nope





If you did get information from the OB, did it sway your choices in any way? Why or why not?



Where do you live? Ar but not in the good parts
2009-10-16 13:31:48 UTC
*I wasn't on here on Wednesday, cause I was home with my fevery baby.



When you were pregnant, how much did your OB or midwife talk to you about breastfeeding?

I don't remember us having an actual discussion about it.



Did the office have an LC? What did she do?

no.



If there was a class, were you encouraged to attend, or just told (or read on the little sign by the check-out desk) that it was available?

Just told it was available via a sign they put up near the receptionist's desk.



Were you given any written information? (Books? Pamphlets?)

not from my Ob-Gyn



If you did get information from the OB, did it sway your choices in any way? Why or why not?

n/a



Where do you live? (State or Country only is fine.)

North Carolina (US)



I definitely had my mind made up long before my baby arrived. My mom presented breastfeeding as the norm, since that's what she did for us. Yes, I think OBs could definitely do more in that department, but everyone is so worried about "offending" people by saying that breast is best that they may not.



The doctor who I signed up under when I switched to this practice was just totally not my type of person. When I mentioned ideas like birthing naturally and breastfeeding he would say, "well no one gets a medal for doing that" and pretty much brushed me off. Like, okay, I don't want a medal. I wanted my birth and mothering experiences to be a certain way, though.
Alyssa and Chloe's Mommy
2009-10-16 13:39:24 UTC
I live in Illinois.



I saw a midwife group and not a single one of them spoke to me about breastfeeding. There were no pamphlets in the waiting room, none given out, nothing. Technically the way the clinic is set up it is attached to the hospital. If a pregnant woman felt motivated she could go on a 10 min walk across the whole hospital and over to the LC office. No one told me about it though. Even on the tour of labor and delivery no one mentioned the LC office. I found out about it post partum from the LC when she made her rounds to the new babies.



The only classes the midwife group encouraged were on giving birth. Honestly I don't think any of them ever asked a single question about what I planned to do with the baby once she was born, just prenatal care.



Kinda depressing when I look back on it. I thought they were so great, but they only did the bare minimum for their job. I'm TTC #2 now and I'm thinking maybe I should reconsider my birthing options.



I did breastfeed my daughter for 11 months. And I did go to see the LC many times after my daughter was born... including at 11 months begging them to end her nursing strike before my chest exploded from pain.
Teeny Beeny
2009-10-16 14:32:05 UTC
For my first child:

1. My OB didn't talk to me about breastfeeding at all. In fact, she oddly kept asking me about WIC, suggesting I sign up (I did not).

2. No, no LC. I didn't see one until in the hospital

3. If there was a class, no one ever informed me of it

4. WIC pamphlets, lol. And some prenatal screening info.

5. No real info given

6. Minnesota



I did breastfeed my son, but only until he was 3 months old. I started supplementing with formula when he was 6 weeks old. I had no support or education about breastfeeding, so I assumed I had to use formula when I went to work. I didn't know I could pump.



I switched OB's when pregnant with my daughter. The new clinic was amazing-Lots of BF support. When I went for my 20 week ultrasound, they asked if I wanted to meet with a LC and discuss breastfeeding. I said no, only because at that point I had done enough research on my own to know I was going to breastfeed baby #2 no matter what.
2009-10-16 14:28:49 UTC
I 100% agree that lack of education on the subject is a major reason more women don't nurse or that they don't stick with it.



My experience has been that a lot of women often look to their mothers, grandmothers, aunts and the like for suggestions on the subject. Unfortunately the understanding of the differences between breast milk and formula was completely wrong when those women had babies.



I’m in my late 20’s. My mom has a childcare book from when I was a baby that says that there’s no nutritional reason to breastfeed. The tone is outright “You can if you want, but there’s really no reason to inconvenience yourself.” (My mom ignored that and nursed all three of her kids anyway.)



That’s the perspective that too many women are still getting because it’s what their mothers know. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard about a girl wanting to breastfeed only to have her family tell her that it hurts, that her boobs will leak forever, that it will ruin her boobs, (and of course the best of all) the continuation of “there’s no reason to do that when formula is just as good.”



It’s the expectation rather than the rule that health care providers really try to educate their patients on the subject. All my OB, my L&D nurses and my pediatrician ever asked me was breast or bottle. That was th end of the discussion. Now granted, my answer was breast so I can’t say that none of them would have tried to sway me, but I don’t recall any “Wow, that’s great!” either.



I’ve known since my teens that I’d breastfeed my children. I think that my mom was probably a big factor because to this day, she feels somewhat guilty that she listened to her doctor and weaned my oldest brother at 6 months. She believes his severe seasonal allergies are her fault. While I’m not a big fan of dwelling on the past, she still makes a big deal about what a mistake she feels like it was.



My mother-in-law is a big believer in breastfeeding as well. Beyond those two, my biggest source of info was the internet (LOVE Google!) and the What to Expect series. I really don’t recall my OB talking to me much about it. There was definitely no LC. Our pediatrician and I did have some discussions about it, but it was mostly antidotal sharing experiences since she nursed her children as well.



I live in Missouri, a state with a depressingly low breastfeeding rate. :-(
2009-10-16 13:48:22 UTC
When I was pregnant, my OB said nothing to me about breastfeeding whatsoever. He didn't actually say much to me at all lol.



His office didn't not have an LC, but I did get in touch with one. She wasn't really much though. I would ask a question and the only answer I would get was "just keep trying" when I was having difficulty with my son. I ended up actually giving up when my son was five weeks old because he refused to eat anything, but he did take to formula well. It was far too stressful for the both of us when he wouldn't eat.



I was told about the class and encouraged to attend, but I didn't have a way to get to the class so it wasn't an option for me unfortunately.



I wasn't given any kind of written information at all. But I did buy some books on it.



Canada.
rxqueen
2009-10-16 16:14:19 UTC
There has recently been a review on our national breastfeeding strategy in Australia. If you are interested here are a couple of the answers that I gave in the consultation. (Sorry I've just done a cut and paste job on the answers I thought might be relevant to your question... feel free to skip bits you're not interested in!)





"In your experience, did promotion of breastfeeding while you (or your partner) was pregnant encourage starting and/or continuing breastfeeding? What things seemed to help the most? Why?"



Information was not provided to me in any form, I had to actively seek out information on breastfeeding while I was pregnant (and still do). The information I received was via the ABA (Australian Breastfeeding Association) website and a course that I went to provided by the ABA that focused on establishing breastfeeding. The course helped significantly as it gave me confidence in my ability to breastfeed regardless of the differing advice from others (family/friends and medical professionals). Without the course I don’t think there would have been another avenue for me to receive this vital information.



"Do you think that support and the promotion of breastfeeding should be provided consistently to all mothers and women across Australia?"



Yes, absolutely. I think that the lack of consistency in the advice given by medical professionals is one of the biggest barriers to establishing and maintaining a successful breastfeeding relationship with baby. I received VERY different advice regarding breastfeeding from nurses, midwives and paediatricians before even leaving hospital. Since then I have continued to receive conflicting advice from many medical professionals including my M&CH nurse, GP, the ABA and a lactation consultant. I was determined to breastfeed and was able to feel confident in forming my own opinion on what was going to work for me and my child, however, I can imagine how this confusion would easily lead to a mother giving up on breastfeeding altogether.





"Do you think that there is enough breastfeeding support provided to new mothers?"



It is improving with things like the ABA's mum to mum hotline, however I feel that it is up to the mother to seek out the information which means that uniformed mothers may miss out on that support.





"How do you think breastfeeding promotion and / or support could be better provided?"



I feel it is essential that there is an increase in community awareness of breastfeeding and its challenges. I think some mothers are too quick to think that when something isn't going right with breastfeeding it means that they ‘can't breastfeed'. From my experience, I think many mothers don’t realise that if you persist through the initial discomfort of breastfeeding, the benefits to mother and baby (not to mention convenience) of breastfeeding far outweigh that of bottle feeding. I think if this type of information is more ‘common knowledge’, women can be more prepared to face the challenges that are more than likely to occur.



Breastfeeding supporters sometimes have the tendency to be seen as overbearing and strictly ‘anti formula’. This needs to be taken into consideration when developing the promotional strategy. The promotion of breastfeeding needs to focus on the reality of breastfeeding rather than the medical/statistics etc. People need to know that the majority of people CAN breastfeed and there are only a few medical conditions that will prevent a mother from breastfeeding. They need to realise that hurdles encountered during establishing breastfeeding can be overcome with the right support and advice.



As mentioned previously, the information and support provided to mothers from health professionals needs to become consistent.



In addition, as someone who is planning to continue breastfeeding past one year of age, I think an increase in community awareness and support for breastfeeding would help immensely with the negative feedback I am already receiving from family and friends who think that extended breastfeeding is wrong, disgusting or of no benefit.
Dyot
2009-10-16 13:40:47 UTC
I saw a midwife -- then moved too far away to keep seeing her, and had to find an OB -- and then he got very intervention-happy at the end of my pregnancy, so I found a second OB -- and all three assumed I would be breastfeeding, and it was only mentioned in passing. I'm not aware of any LCs connected with their offices. I am pretty sure the midwife mentioned herself offering breastfeeding support. This is in/near Ottawa, Canada.



The only thing I can think of vis-a-vis printed ephemera is that I gently snarked on the 2nd OB for having Nestle "information" available in her waiting room (which was missing on subsequent visits...), and that the hospital gave me a large booklet of breastfeeding nonsense from Ross Pediatrics.



If there were classes I heard nothing about them, but admittedly I wasn't looking. My primary prep was Dr Newman's book, and noting the name of an IBCLC a friend recommended and the contact info for local LLL groups. A couple of weeks pp kellymom.com was so useful I donated $20 to her site, but I have never been able to remember the issue that I was $20 grateful for the resolution of...



Oh, wait. A public health nurse who was "also a lactation consultant!" (credentials unspecified) telephoned us a few times after the birth offering to come by.



I wrote that I "did not require breastfeeding advice at this time" on my birth plan, and was generally left alone with the exception of one helpful wag of a nurse who offered "Don't let her nurse for comfort, ye'll get sore nipples!" Yeah, okay...
March Madness...
2009-10-16 13:38:57 UTC
I live in Wisconsin, and I'm pregnant with my first. At my first appointment with my OB, he asked whether I planned to breastfeed or bottle-feed. Even though I was already planning on breastfeeding, and told him so, he still ran through the benefits of breastfeeding, as well as the resources the hospital had to offer to help new mothers become comfortable with it. I was quite surprised, because we just moved to a small town - less than 3500 people - and I hadn't expected to have so much support on the issue, or to have so many resources at my disposal. I think that even if I hadn't been planning on breastfeeding already, I would have taken another good, long look at it as an option.
2009-10-16 13:36:55 UTC
wow now that i think about it....(for both children)

she never said anythg till th last couple of weeks she asked if i was goin to b/f.

she just told me about the classes

i wanted to breastfeed

i always knew it was the best thing for my children, with my first after a painful 10days of tryin i found out he was tongue tied so i didnt b/f but i did express b/m for him till he was 6months old. with my second im still b/f and she is almost 8months, i am trying to get her to drink formula/bm from a bottle tho so i can have a break from time to time( isnt workin tho)

Australia
2009-10-16 13:35:21 UTC
My OB did not talk to me about breastfeeding. There was an LC provided for free to me at the hospital. She saw me twice (with both babies) for about 10 minutes each. She gave me a booklet and a folder full of information with the second baby (didn't recieve anything with the first).



The pediatrician only asked if I was breastfeeding or formula feeding and how much with the first baby. The second baby came with all the info I needed and found out that my pediatrician's office had a LC on staff that we saw when problems arose with Sophie(2nd baby).



I was only able to BF Ethan for 5 weeks. He kept pulling away from the nipple over and over and crying during, after, and in between feedings. I did not know anyone who breastfed and didn't even know you could call and talk to the LC's from the hospital. I ended up formula feeding him at 5 weeks b/ I didn't know what else to do. I honestly thought I wasn't making enough milk for him since he was crying so much(I had breast implants and was sure that was the problem). No one at the ped's office even questioned me or talked to me about why I stopped. They just gave me like 8 cans of formula to try. It wasn't until about 4 months later that they finally diagnosed him with reflux and after doing some online investigating I found that all those early problems we had were actually symptoms of reflux that were overlooked.



With Sophie I was determined to BF after the experience with Ethan. I found some on line sites, I talked to LC's before and after birth. I talked to you fine ladies on YA and we did it! We did it until 11 months when I stopped due to a medical issue. I was sooooo much more informed and was able to do my own research this time around.



I live in Tennessee. I don't know about everyone else, but after waiting more then an hour to see my OB I only got her for about 5 minutes. I was even asking her questions as she was walking out the door. There were times I followed her down the hall trying to talk to her. I doubt she would have time to educate me.... but good idea! I think it would be easier to educate in the hospital with the baby right there.
ohmeohmy
2009-10-16 13:41:14 UTC
my ob said nothing about breastfeeding

no lc in the office

i had a friend who was breastfeeding and that got me interested

the hospital had a breastfeeding segment in the childbirth class

i didn't read much beforehand but i did glue myself to the la leche league website once my 1st son was born



the ped. asked if i was breastfeeding or formula feeding



the hospital has a room-in policy with the baby but not allowed to bedshare while sleeping



having a friend who breastfed is really what helped me and then educating myself further cemented my decision



sw florida is my location
Jushkie
2009-10-16 14:15:49 UTC
I saw both my midwife and a GP every two weeks, they both mentioned breastfeeding in passing



There was no LC or anyone truly educated on the matter



I was told about the breastfeeding class by my midwife, but found the whole experience utterly confusing. When I actually ended up with a ton of breastfeeding problems after having my daughter, there was nothing useful that I could remember seeing or hearing in them (my husband attended the classes with me and he couldn't recall anything either, so I guess it wasn't just my post-baby memory loss:)



I did get a few pamphlets, but they don't really help you to get the baby to latch on.....



I live in the UK



And yes, medical staff should definitely do more to encourage/help/educate
˚despeяate housewife˚
2009-10-16 20:02:34 UTC
When you were pregnant, how much did your OB or midwife talk to you about breastfeeding?

*Nothing at all, he never mentioned it once.



Did the office have an LC? What did she do?

*I don't think so



Were you given any written information? (Books? Pamphlets?)

*Yeah but about parenting, magazines and stuff, nothing about breastfeeding alone.





Where do you live? (State or Country only is fine.) I live in Mexico but my Dr is in CA and my son was born there.



I nursed my son for 20months, my sucky Dr didn't stop me, I did my own research and made it work, I loved my nursing experience just as much as I love that it's finally over, yay!



I guess Drs (or at least mine) think that breastfeeding is something that doesn't concern them at all, he certainly made it look that way.
Erika
2009-10-16 13:50:44 UTC
With my youngest I attended a prenatal class, they didn't even cover breast feeding, which is a shame.

Neither one of my doctors pushed BF or FF, they just asked which one I was doing and left it at that.

The hospital I delivered at had a LC, she helped me with my first since I had no clue what I was doing.

Didn't get any info from OB

New Brunswick, Canada.
Boo
2009-10-17 02:27:36 UTC
Yes they should give us information about that.I here breastfeeding is good for the baby.
jolie l
2009-10-20 00:15:01 UTC
The Ob's need to really talk MORE to us while we go in for our monthly/weekly visits!


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