Question:
3 week old daughter won't have a bowel movement?
mkshny_4eva
2007-04-29 12:02:56 UTC
I have read that it is normal for a baby to not poop for a few days at a time, but when should I start to worry? She burps a lot, and she farts, but that's it. today is day 4 with no bowel movement. She is breast fed with an occasional bottle.
21 answers:
Melissa
2007-04-29 12:06:45 UTC
Well breastfed babies have a lot of what we call poopy diapers, but that's not really what it is. (That yellow sticky stuff is not a real BM) Babies that are breastfed do not have many impurities to dispose of, so it's not uncommon for them to go 5 or 6 days without a real BM. Just give her another day or 2 and then call the doctor if she hasn't gone. If she was a formula fed baby then it would be a problem as they should go everyday.
MamiZorro2
2007-04-29 12:21:29 UTC
Try "taking her temperature" rectally. When my son was constipated on day four, this worked like a charm. Put a little lubrication, even if it is just a little baby oil or petroleum jelly, to make it a little more comfortable. Hold her legs up while you take her temp, so they are gently pressing on her tummy. After about 30 seconds, remove the thermometer, and rub her tummy gently. Hopefully, she will start grunting and have a few good bm's. If this doesn't work, you MAY have to put about 1 tsp of dark Karo syrup with 3-4 ounces of either breast milk or formula in a bottle and give it to her. TRUST me, it is okay to do this. It was my pediatrician's curative elixir, and it really does help move things along.



To the JERKFACE who told this woman to call CPS on herself...You know what? I am sure if her daughter had a high temp and was listless and in distress, she wouldn't have bothered sitting down at the computer and would already be in the emergency room with her baby. Some situations can be helped just by talking to someone or some people who have already had some parental experience. Call "Idiot Patrol" on yourself, ya blankety blankety blank blank!!!



(I got your back, Little Mama!!! :D)
bluenaketat
2007-04-29 13:34:11 UTC
I exclusively breast feed my baby and she is five months and is now down to only having a bowel movement once a week and the doctor said it was not a problem because it is so natural that not all babies have waste left over from breast milk........i was also told that when they have the bowel movements they will be larger than normal and that is also the case.........they usually fill up the entire diaper..........it is perfectly normal and for a breast fed baby not to have bowel movements everyday
Megan Michelle
2007-04-29 12:25:02 UTC
My son did the same thing. I tried EVERYTHING!!! I found if you take their legs and act like they are riding a bike(in the movement of) that this helps with gas. THe entire time she will probabley fart. Another thing is to massage the babies stomach in a clockwise motion. THen you when she poops push her legs up to her head. Another thing is Karo syrup in the bottles. Some doctors recommend that and others dont. Hopefully this helps out. When she gets a little older try applesause and juice.



Good Luck and Congrats!!!
MELISA
2007-04-29 12:40:29 UTC
They say that babies under a month should have BMs everyday but this is not always true. My son started going days without BMs before a month old and my doctor told me to give him five days and call her if he still hadn't pooped. I would say give it two more days and call again, the doctor should give you a suppository by then.
2007-04-29 12:11:30 UTC
My son did the same thing i think the nurse said give it five days, but i went to the pharmacy and got some compositor, ask them but don't do this often because the baby will depend on it.. He will tell you to split it in half long ways and it will take about 5-10min and she will have a bowl movement
boricuabitch4u
2007-04-29 12:14:52 UTC
yes its very normal for a baby that is three weeks old to not poop my baby was the same way and i was very concerened the way u are but my baby doc say that it was normal now if u feel that her stomach is very hard take a baby quitip and take a little bit of baby vaseline and swib it inside their but now i might sound cruel but the doc will tell u the same thing ..... or they will proscribe a pill that looks like gell and that be worst then the vaseline i hope she feel better.
kj
2007-04-29 12:09:17 UTC
Since you aren't putting any "solid" foods into her system, there really shouldn't be a "lot" of poop yet. But, If I were you, to make myself feel better, I would call her pediatrician and ask that question. Is she taking the normal amount of nourishment? Is she fussy, like her stomach hurts?
mennyd
2007-04-29 12:06:48 UTC
Since she is breastfed, she can go up to a week before having a bm. Breastmilk is not going to block up the bowel. It is simply so digestible and so nourishing, that her body uses up most of it, rather than putting it out as waste.
ladyluck10454
2007-04-29 23:21:35 UTC
i think 4 days is a Little to many try giving her gripe water i had the same problem with my daughter and it worked for me i also breastfeed and i was told that should have been going at least every other day since breast milk is easily digested
cinderella4653
2007-04-29 12:09:10 UTC
My baby's doctor said one week is OK. Does she show any signs of distress? I'd call on Monday to see what your doc says.
2007-04-29 12:06:42 UTC
You should go in and talk to your doctor, my daughter went 4 days and they ended up changing her formula because she could not break down the bonds in the formula .
Trish
2007-04-29 12:47:28 UTC
take the baby to the dr. im not sure abuot a newborn but my dr. told me for my 6 month old to stick a temp in his rectum it usally works becase it opens up alittle and contracts and hold the babys legs to the stomach
2007-04-29 12:12:38 UTC
my son was like that and the doctor said to try rectal stimulation by sticking a rectal thermometer in his rectum but not very deep and just hold it there for about 20 seconds... make sure you use vaseline or some sort of lubrication and then he also said to try sticking a little castrol oil in and around his rectum... it worked for my son...
jameela o
2007-04-29 12:11:48 UTC
usually breastfeed babies have up to 4 bowl movements a day but sometimes they do get constipated it might have something 2 do with what your eating how many wet diapers meaning how many times does she pee? perhaps its from the simalac i breast feed all 5 of my kids but occasionally i gave my oldest simalac and she would get constipated
EarthGirl
2007-04-29 12:07:13 UTC
You should take her to the Dr. I worked in a day care a long time ago, and there was this little girl who had not had a BM for several days. It turned out that she was constipated and had a gigantic poop ball stuck in her and she couldn't get it out. They had to physically reach in there to remove it. Poor kid.

I breast fed both my boys for 9 months and they pooped every day. Take her to the Dr.!
eyepopping hideous female troll
2007-04-29 12:07:48 UTC
I think 4 days is to long. you should call your doctor right away.
rebajill23
2007-04-29 13:57:56 UTC
give her some prune juice just alil dilute it also it wont hurt her but it might help her go goodluck
2007-04-29 12:06:14 UTC
You should call the dr to be sure.
NoahTall
2007-04-29 12:10:47 UTC
She is your DAUGHTER, not a pet! What kind of mother are you to ask a question like this here and not in your doctor's office?



My god woman. Call CPS on yourself and do you both a favor.





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2007-04-29 12:07:40 UTC
CONSTIPATION

How do I know if my child is constipated?

Constipation refers to the compactness of the stools and the difficulty passing them, not the frequency of bowel movements. The consistency and number of stools varies according to age and from baby to baby. Newborns have several stools a day that are soft and the consistency of seedy mustard, especially if breastfed. Formula-fed infants usually have fewer, firmer and darker stools. Once solid food enters the diet, the stools become more formed and less frequent, and some babies may have a bowel movement without difficulty only once every three days, but daily is preferable.



To tell if your baby is constipated, look for the following signs:



In a newborn, firm stools less than once a day with straining and difficulty passing them

Dry, hard stools and pain on passing them

Hard, pebble-like stools passed by a baby who strains during a bowel movement, drawing her legs up on her abdomen, grunting, and getting red-faced

Streaks of blood along the outside of the stool

Abdominal discomfort along with hard, infrequent stools

What causes constipation?

Normally, as digested food travels down the intestines, water and nutrients are absorbed, and the waste material becomes stools. For a soft stool to form, enough water must remain in the waste material, and the lower intestinal and rectal muscles must contract and relax to move the stool along and out. Malfunction of either of these mechanisms – too little water or poor muscle movement – can cause constipation. Being plugged up with a hard stool for three days can be very uncomfortable. In fact, we did not appreciate this until we strained along with one of our babies, who was constipated for the first two years of his life. As Martha would help him produce a bowel movement, she would proclaim, "I feel like a mid-wife."



Constipation can become a self-perpetuating problem. Hard stools cause pain on passage; consequently, the child holds on. The longer the stool remains, the harder it becomes – which makes it even more painful to pass. And the longer the large stool stretches the intestines, the weaker their muscle tone becomes. To complicate matters, passage of a hard stool through a narrow rectum often tears the rectal wall (called a rectal fissure) , accounting for the streaks of blood. This painful tear prompts baby even more not to want to have a bowel movement.



Consider these causes of constipation in your infant:



New foods or milks can set off constipation. Has your baby begun new foods, switched from breast milk to formula, or formula to cow's milk? If you suspect a food or milk change as the culprit, return to the looser-stool diet.



For bottlefed infants, consider experimenting with various formulas to find the one that is kindest to the stools. Also, give your formula-fed baby an extra bottle of water a day.

Constipation in Children:



The cause could also be emotional. Is your toddler going through a negative phase or emotional upset that may cause reluctance to have a bowel movement? When a person is upset, his or her intestinal functions may be upset, showing either diarrhea or constipation.



Your child may not be drinking enough water and/or fluids. Consider giving your child 2 to 3 extra glasses of water or dilute juice (¼ juice to ¾ water) a day.



Not enough fiber (fresh fruits and vegetables and whole grains) in your child's diet.

How do I treat constipation?

The following is Dr. Sears' ten-step plan for treating constipation:



Drink to go. Not drinking enough fluids is also a subtle contributor to problems with constipation, especially in the very young and very old. The colon is your body's fluid regulator. If you're not drinking enough, your colon steals water from the waste material and gives it to the body, causing the stools to be water deprived or hard. People eating high-fiber diets actually increase their risk of constipation if they don't drink extra water along with fiber-rich foods, since fiber needs water to do its intestinal sweeping job. More fluids in your diet put more fluids in your bowels, lessening constipation.



Add more fiber foods to child's diet. Fiber softens the stools by drawing water into them, making them bulkier and easier to pass. Fiber foods for older babies are bran cereals, graham crackers, whole-grain breads and crackers, and high-fiber vegetables such as peas, broccoli, and beans. (For a fiber-rich diet, see fiber foods.)



Get moving. Exercise improves digestion and speeds the passage of food through the intestines. A moving body gets the bowels moving, too.



Ease the passage of stools. Your infant may need a little outside help with a well-timed suppository. As they are going through a phase of learning how to have a bowel movement, many babies in their early months grunt and draw up their legs to push out a stool. But the straining baby may appreciate a little outside help with a well-timed, well-placed glycerin suppository. Available without prescription at your pharmacy, these look like tiny rocket ships. If your baby is straining, insert one as far into the rectum as you can and hold baby's buttocks together for a few minutes to dissolve the glycerin. These are especially helpful to lubricate the rectum if baby has a rectal tear or bleeding . Don't use for more than a few days without your doctor's advice.



Wiggle it out. As soon as you insert the glycerin suppository, wiggle it a bit, which stimulates the tense rectal muscles to relax and eases the passage of the hard stools.



Insert liquid glycerin. Liquid glycerin (Babylax) may be gently inserted by dropping it into baby's rectum, which often stimulates a bowel movement.



Use natural laxatives. When using a laxative, try the most natural first. Begin with diluted prune juice (with pulp), a tablespoon or two for the six- month-old and as much as eight ounces for the toddler. Try strained prunes or make a prune puree (stew your own or buy commercial), either straight or disguised (mixed with a favorite food), or spread it on a high-fiber cracker. Apricots and the four P's – prunes, pears, plums, and peaches – usually exert a laxative effect. If these seem insufficient, here are other ideas to try:



Psyllium husks (basically, very fine flakes of psyllium bran, available at nutrition stores) are a natural-fiber stool softener. This bland laxative is served sprinkled on cereal or combined with a fruit-and-yogurt mixture.

Dosage of psyllium:

Adults: Begin with one teaspoon and increase to one tablespoon once a day as needed.

Toddlers and children: Begin with one teaspoon a day and increase to two teaspoons a day as needed.



Be sure to take psyllium with an eight-ounce glass of water. For this concentrated fiber to work the intestines need lots of fluid; otherwise, psyllium can "gum up" in the intestines and actually increase the constipation. You can also mix psyllium powder in a smoothie. Psyllium is also available over-the-counter as Metamucil.





Nonprescription laxatives, such as Malt-supex (a malt-barley extract) or Metamucil (psyllium powder), may soften your child's stools.



Flax oil is a favorite. A healthy alternative to mineral oil is flax oil, which not only has laxative properties, but is a valuable source of omega 3 fats as well. (Although you may hear that mineral oil is a good oil to relieve constipation, because it is a mixture of hydrocarbons dried from petroleum products, I have never been convinced of its safety. And, unlike flax oil, it certainly has no nutritional benefits.) Unlike mineral oil, which slides through the intestines, possibly taking vitamins with it, flax oil is a nutrient that facilitates absorption of the vitamins.



Dosage of flax oil:

Infants: one teaspoon a day

Toddlers: two teaspoons a day

Children and adults: one tablespoon a day





Flax seed meal (ground flax seeds) is an even a better laxative than flax oil since it contains fiber. They look similar to finely ground bran flakes and mix well with soupy cereal, or even better, added to a high-fiber smoothie .



Dosage of flax seed meal:

Toddlers: one tablespoon a day

Older children and adults: two tablespoons a day





Stool-Ade - Make a smoothie. See Dr. Sears' School-Ade recipe which also doubles as Stool-Ade. An easy way to get lots of fiber and laxative foods into your child is by making a stool-softening smoothie





Over-the-counter suppositories. Besides glycerin suppositories, try glycerin suppositories that also include a laxative ingredient. These may be used periodically if the constipation is severe and resistant to the above simpler measures.





Use an enema as a last resort. Baby Fleet may be tried if your toddler is miserably constipated and nothing else is working. It is available without prescription, and directions are on the package insert.



CONSTIPATION IN INFANTS UNDER A YEAR

In addition to the above general tips for preventing and treating constipation at all ages, try these infant-specific tips:

If formula-feeding, experiment with different formulas to find which one is most intestinal-friendly.

Feed baby smaller amounts of formula more frequently, which gives the intestines a better chance to properly digest the formula. An easier rule of thumb is to feed half as much twice as often.

Delay introduction of solid foods, especially more constipating ones, such as rice and bananas. Instead of rice cereal, try barley cereal. Good starter high-fiber foods for constipated infants are pureed pears and prunes.

Ease the passage of stools using glycerin suppositories or liquid glycerin (as described above).

Add one teaspoon of flax oil once a day mixed into baby cereal or baby's bottle.

Watch for about-to-go signs. As soon as your baby begins to grunt, grimace, look bloated, or show signs of straining, quickly insert a glycerin suppository to ease the passage.

The Bath and Bowel Movement Technique

Here is a Sears' family trick that helped us ease the passage of stools in several of our constipated babies. Although it's messy, it works. Immerse your baby in a warm bath so that the water is around chest-high. When your baby is relaxed in the bath, massage baby's abdomen and get ready for the mudslide


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