Question:
Need some experienced moms of boys advice.?
Cindy 24S
2006-10-11 07:59:06 UTC
I have a new son 10 days old now and thinking about getting him circumcised before it to late to get it done, but I've heard some horror stories about it and hesitant to commit. My friends all had ther boys done and says its no big deal and is better to have it done and that I'll be sorry if I don't.
She says that they numb it nowdays and they don't feel a thing.

I need some experienced moms advice on this. Is it done different nowdays?
My mom told me yes, its better to have it done, that my brothers were done but that was a long time ago.
29 answers:
♥ to ......
2006-10-11 22:33:54 UTC
I would get it done now It really isn't a big deal and with my 3 boys they really did well with it. I think you will be sorry if you don't. I know its all preference but I think it is a good idea to have it done. Yes they numb them and it is a quick procedure with my 2nd son we got to be in the room but not with my 1st or last. To care for it just make sure you have a TON of Vaseline and a lot of 4x4 gauze pads and he will be fine-you will be to. Good Luck.
cut50yearsago
2006-10-12 05:36:01 UTC
It really does matter, it is HIS penis not yours, it is not your decision to make. You may have a legal ability to make this decision but you know you would be upset if someone had ok'd body modifying elective surgery on you.



Some doctors do use a local some still do not. The doctors don't think it is necessary because the little guys are easy to tie down and can't get up and leave or defend themselves anyway. Plus once the cutting begins the boy goes into shock and may even quit crying.



Does it really hurt the baby? If they give him a local that will wear off in a few hours, the pain isn't just during surgery it goes on for at least a week. Have you ever had a fingernail ripped off? The pain goes on and on for days.



Just because the boy can't tell you how bad it is doesn't mean that it is not painful. If you ignore a child's crying long enough they will quit crying, as it is not doing them any good anyway, nobody is making the hurt go away.



The thing is it is such an unneeded pain. The reasons that are used for circumcising are totally false.



If a doctor says circumcision is needed, it is because he/she doesn't know or want to know how to treat an intact penis. He can make more money cutting than he can by prescribing a cream to treat whatever little problem might arise.



More and more little boys are being left intact; those that are cut are going to see that they are missing something. Some day they will look it up and find just what was taken from them, without their consent. Do you want your son to ask, "Why did you have my penis cut? What gave you that right?



I see a lot of females answer these questions, like they have so much experience with what it is like to be circumcised. They have no idea! If her clothing was to grate against her clitoris every day all day, a woman might get the beginnings of an idea. They think it is just a flap of skin; with 240 feet of nerves and 20,000 specialized nerve endings the foreskin is comparable to the female clitoris.



It comes to this; some new mothers are so damn lazy they are willing to have their new baby cut on because somebody said it is easier than cleaning him or teaching him hygiene!



Added 10/12/06

To sara: your research is not worth a damn! Grow a penis and have it cut up then you might know a little of what you are talking about. 85% of the males on earth are NOT CIRCUMCISED very few experience any problems. COMPETENT doctors are able to treat intact penises without surgery. Intact males have fewer infections than females and those that do can be effectively treated with the same medications. Many problems with intact children come from parents AND DOCTORS trying to force complete retraction at too early an age; it just isn't loose yet, it is not necessary to retract fully until puberty. A boy should be encouraged to retract his own foreskin when bathing, but only so much as is comfortable, not to cause pain!
peregrine1123
2006-10-11 17:15:19 UTC
There is not one medical association in the world that recommends routine infant circumcision anymore -- not even the APA. It's a cosmetic procedure without any health benefits.



Personally, I think it's barbaric.



First and foremost, this is HIS body, no one else's. It should be his decision whether or not to permanently remove a healthy and functional part of it. It's never too late to have a circumcision done, but once done, it can never be undone.



Secondly, it DOES cause pain. A lot of pain. This has been proven over and over again in medical studies and anyone who says differently is trying to convince themselves that they didn't choose to hurt their precious new baby. In order to give numb the surgical area, they stick a needle into your newborn's penis. Of course that hurts. If they do it right, they wait at least 15 minutes before proceeding with the circumcision. Many doctors don't, and there are some who still don't use any pain relief. Unless you're in the room with them, you won't know. Nurses will often tell you your baby slept through the procedure. I know several nurses. They tell parents that to make them feel better. What really happens is that the baby screams in shock, pain, and disbelief as the foreskin is ripped away from the glans (similar to ripping a fingernail off, but much more painful), then passes out as the foreskin is cut away.



Then while the wound is healing, it's kept in a diaper and exposed to urine and feces. That's supposed to be healthier???



Check out www.nocirc.org. I think it should be mandatory that any parent considering surgery for their newborn watch a circumcision video so they know exactly what is entailed, and then be in the room with their son while the surgery is performed. To do any less is to willfully blind yourself to the truth so you won't be bothered by any pesky feelings of guilt.



The foreskin is fused to the head of the penis during childhood to protect it. It secretes smegma, which has antibacterial properties, to keep the glans clean. Sometime between ages 3-13, on average, the foreskin will gradually separate from the glans and become retractile. Never force this. Retracting a boy's foreskin can cause scarring and infection. You don't need to clean under there any more than you need to clean the inside of a girl's vagina. Caring for an intact boy is easy -- just wipe the outside and leave it alone.



It sounds like you've got strong instincts, mama, and they're telling you to protect your baby boy. Listen to them!
Terrible Threes
2006-10-11 17:22:50 UTC
Please read over the ansewr and links provided by "Girl Named Sue."!!!!!!!!!



There is no legitimate reason to have the most sensitive part of your babies body amputated. The circumcision rate in this country is dropping rapidly because it is really not needed.



These mysterious "infections" that everyone is so up in arms about are easily treatable with antibiotics! Just think, what part of a girl's vulva gets removed when she has a Urinary Tract Infection?

A baby's foreskin is fused to the head, much like a fingernail is fused to the nailbed. This helps keep out foreign matter until the boy is able to pull it back himself. Fingernails get infected all the time, but removig them would be torturous wouldn't it? If someone constantly yanks the foreskin back before it is ready there can be teras that can get infected. Proper care of the infant foreskin is super simple. Just wipe it like a finger and be done. No need to have a bloody wound sitting in poop!



Your mom told you to have it done because she is from a different generation when they didn't always even give mothers a choice.



My mom circumcised my first brother, but not the last 2. She learned her lesson! The twins are now 13 y.o. and have NO PROBLEMS. They are burly lacrosse players and they told me that the "locker room" argument is a load of crap.



Even though my DH is cut, we did not circumcise my son because it is not our body to cosmetically alter. It is his. I also didn't give my daughter breast inplants so that she would "look like me."



The girls of this generation are going to be a lot more used to the natural penis, so they won't necessarily have the opinion that a hard keritinized glans "looks better" than waht is supposed to be there.



If you really want to see what the procedure looks like watch this video

Circumcision Video

http://www.circumcisionquotes.com/video.html



It is one method, but they are all cruel and completely unecessary.



The legitimate reasons for circumcision are: advanced cancer, frostbite or gangrene. Anything else is a from a doctor that was never taught anything about the natural penis, except how to cut it up.
anonymous
2006-10-11 21:19:06 UTC
Yes you should have it done and I'm going to tell you what to expect afterwards. The foreskin is a sleeve of skin that covers the outside of the penis and can be removed without problems.

It is considered a useless appendage hanging off the end of the end of the penis. People have been removing foreskins for thousands of years. There is no medical reason to circumcise nowdays although it does provide some medical benefits. Most young mothers opt to have it done purely for cosmetic reasons. It looks better and is neater and cleaner. The overwhelmingly majority of american women prefer males to be circumcised.



I have been a nurse in L&D now for over 10 years in a smalltown hospital in the South. I've prepped many babies for circs and also assisted in with proceedure. We use EMLA cream on the penis about an hour before to numb it. We also then use a penile nerve block which is just a small shot at the base of the penis. The penis is completely numbed and any crying is from them having their legs held apart.



First a marker is used to draw a circle around the penis where the foreskin is to be excised at. It is usually placed about center between the abdoman and the rim of the head.

A small probe is inserted under the foreskin and rolled around to free the foreskin from the head of the penis. With scissors a small slit is cut in the foreskin on the top and cut back to the coronal rim of the head. The foreskin is then flipped back over itself turning it inside out exposing the head. The baby feels nothing. A small stainless steel bell is placed over the head and the foreskin pulled over the bell. A gomco clamp is attached to the bell and the foreskin is tugged and fished through a small hole in the clamp and pulled up evenly until the marked line is evenly spread out around the bell.

The gomco clamp is tightened and the foreskin is squeezed between the clamp and the bell. Again the baby feels no pain.

The foreskin on the distal side of the bell is then cut off using a small acalpel and the clamp is left in place for a few more minutes to seal the foreskin and prevent bleeding. Once the clamp is loosened and removed, the Dr. uses her thumb and forefinger to push the remaining skin back toward the back of the penis which is now its perminate position. Most circs in the 1950's and 1960's were done with the gomco clamp. It removes the maximum amount of foreskin and results in a neat tight circumcision.



Another method used is the plasti-bell. The penis is prepped as before and the foreskin slit to the coronal rim. Again the foreskin is flipped back over inside out behind the head. A small plastic cap is placed over the penis head and the foreskin returned to its forward position covering the cap. The cap has a groove in it which a string is tied tightly around foreskin resting in the groove. The foreskin on the distal end is trimmed off with scissors and the cap stays in place and will loosen up and fall off on its own in about 10 or12 days. The down side to this method is it doesn't remove as much foreskin as the gomco clamp. It gives an extremely loose circumcision resulting in the head being about half covered by loose skin. Most women would just rather have it cut off and be done with it.



I have two sons which I did have circumcised and both were done with the gomco clamp.
anonymous
2006-10-11 23:40:03 UTC
I would recommend circumcision, your little guy is very young and it is a perfect time to circumcise.



Try this link and click on the video:



http://www.kaisernetwork.org/health_cast/hcast_index.cfm?display=detail&hc=1802



It shows the most recent circumcision information on aids.



This link is a bit graphic, but shows the kind of infections a boy can get from not being circumcised:



http://www.androlog-urolog.ru/content/balanit_ris_eng.html



and this video has some good overall info:



http://loveandhealth.worldgroups.com/Article.cfm?Topic=2&SubTopic=30&Article=171



I had my sons circumcised after my youngest brother had tons of problems with his foreskin and needed to be circumcised!



Your son will be okay if you don't circumcise, but it is much easier on a baby and its a good preventative step to future problems!



Lots of love,



Sara

sarr115@hotmail.com



I've done a lot of research so feel free to email me if you need anyone needs some advice.



Sorry for the misunderstanding below, african men (not african american men).
Girl named Sue
2006-10-11 15:54:44 UTC
PLEASE, please, please DO NOT circumcise your child!

For those who say it doesn't hurt, please view this video of an actual circumcision: http://intact.ca/vidintro.htm (you can download the video at the bottom of the page).

For those who say it's recommended, cleaner, healthier, they HAVE NOT done any research or read any current studies.



Long story short - I am an OB Registered Nurse. I am a mom of circed and uncircumcised boys. I am currently obtaining my Master's Degree and doing clinical research on routine infant circumcision in both the hospital and office setting.



I've posted my story and information on this site numerous times.Basically, I had a son (before I was a nurse) and he was circumcised because I just thought it was the thing to do (the way so many misinformed people on this site think). He almost bled to death during his circ and required a stay in the NICU to recover. I later go to nursing school. I learn circumcision is no longer recommended by any medical organization in the US or the world, and at best, it's considered a "cosmetic" procedure that carries risk of pain, disfigurement,infection and bleeding.



I've seen many circumcisions in school, and later in my OB department. I've seen the procedure done both ways - Gomco clamp and plasti-bell. Both are barbaric and cause pain. Most doctors don't use anesthesia or topical anesthetic. Even when they do, the baby still feels it. It would sort of be like having your leg removed with only getting a shot of lidocaine (except circumcision would be more painful since the penis has far more nerve endings than a leg or any other body part).



I later remarried. Even though my current husband is circumcised, our two younger sons are NOT circumcised and their penis' were left INTACT! They have not had any health problems, infections, or any other trouble with their foreskins or urinary tracts at all! Washing them or changing diapers was never more difficult than washing/changing my circumcised son.



Please trust me on this. I have nothing to gain by saying it. It a doctor recommends it without medical justification (chronic infection, etc), he has something to gain. It's called $300 profit from doing the surgery. Then I'd recommend finding another doctor. The other people telling you to do it, or that it's healthier, easier or either very misinformed or just plain ignorant on the subject matter. Taking care of an intact son isn't any harder than washing your child's ears. I suspect some of the mother's here would have their kids ears removed so they wouldn't have to wash them if they could find a Dr. to do it. BTW- a persons ears are FAR more likely to get skin cancer than a persons foreskin is to get penile cancer.



I've been reading past clinical studies and conducting my own research for 4 months straight for my Master's. There is NO REASON to ROUTINELY circumcise your infant son.

I appreciate that you even took time to ask and try to gather information. It shows you are a good parent and are trying to make an informed decision. I wish all the other parents out there would do the same.

Please watch the video before you decide. Also know there are millions of men and boys, in both the US and world wide that have been living healthy, clean lives (currently and for millions of years) with a foreskin. Please leave your child the way God and Mother Nature made him. Please.
momma2mingbu
2006-10-11 15:06:02 UTC
My hubby is circ'd.

We chose to leave our son intact.



There is NO strong medical reason for it. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends AGAINST routine infant circumcision. It is really just a cosmetic procedure. Would you circumcise a baby daughter? If not, why cut off part of your son's body?



Check out the links below.



Children are smart. They understand that not all people look the same. Looking different from dad or from friends will not confuse your son. He will understand because not everyone has the same eye color, hair color, body shape, weight, height, adults have pubic hair and kids don't, mom has breasts and no penis.....kids are SMART. Don't underestimate him. I guarantee that if you explain it to him when he is older he will THANK you for NOT doing it to him.



My son is 7.5 years and has had no problems from being left as God/Nature made him. As far as I know he's never even asked his dad about it.



There is NO special care for an uncircumcised child. Just leave it alone. DO NOT try to retract the foreskin. It would be like ripping off one of your fingernails as it is still attached to the head of his penis at this very young age. It will retract on it's own by the time he is school aged. Then all he has to do is rinse it with water in the bath.



If you teach good hygeine and safe sex, there is little chance that there will be a problem. Most of the rest of the world DOES NOT circumcise. It's close to 50/50 here in the USA now.
nangari
2006-10-12 17:33:38 UTC
Are you thinking of giving your son cosmetic surgery? If he asks you later on why you cut his foreskin off, what will be your answer?



"The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) says the benefits of circumcision are not significant enough to recommend circumcision as a routine procedure and that circumcision is not medically necessary. The American Academy of Family Physicians believes parents should discuss with their son's doctor the potential benefits and the risks involved when making their decision."
queencrystle
2006-10-11 15:37:23 UTC
I left both my sons incircumsised..more ppl now dont get it done..theres just no reason to other than religion. Even my doctors said it is fine not to and more and mopre arent doing it...my son keeps clean both of them..:) so thats not a problem either..y risk it and any complications with that>?
anonymous
2006-10-11 15:31:54 UTC
Have him circumcised. The sooner the better. I had my boys done and it wasn't that big a deal for them. I remember getting one final peep at it before the nurse took them to get it done and when they brought them back to me the first thing I did was to examine it. It was swollen a little bit but ok.

The little head of it was red and I could see where they had cut off the skin about midway of it slightly behind the head. The head of it was completely and permanently exposed. He didn't cry and never did. It did ooze a little bit but nothing significant. As it healed over the next couple of weeks the head became a softer pink color and all swelling was gone. The little scar line where they cut it off crusted over and was barely noticeable. His was cut back pretty far behind the rim of the head and he now has a tight circumcision with no loose or stretchy skin to get in the way and the result looks good.

The whole experience was not bad at all for them or me. It is better for them, It looks better, and is neater and cleaner.
Barbi
2006-10-11 15:09:31 UTC
I am sorry to say that I didnt have the money to do it when he was born. He is now three months old and I am saving the money to do it, but the longer you wait, the worse it is. The younger they are, the easier it is because they forget everything about it. They dont remember pain or anything like that.



You should definitely get it done, or your kid will wonder why he is different, he could have health problems if he isnt very careful about being very very clean (having to pull back the skin to clean ALL the time), and he would most likely wind up doing it when he gets older which is so much worse.



My dad is constantly getting on my case for not having done my son yet. He is 46 and just got his done because although he didnt have troubles when he was younger, he is now and says he has wished he did it a long time ago and doesnt wish it on his grandson. (not being done.)



I know there are people out there that are going to say "its all cosmetic. Theres no reason to do it." please dont listen to them. Yes, its considered cosmetic surgery nowadays (which is why some insurance wont pay for it, like in my case), but like I said, it could definitely lead to infections in the future if he isnt the cleanest little boy, and face it, most boys arent.
Strawberry
2006-10-11 15:42:13 UTC
I have two boys and I had both cirm. My first born was 10yrs ago. Back then they did not use anything on him, I unfortunately heard him cry..My second child of 6mths, they numb the area and gave him a little bit of sugar with water on his lips and he was fine..He did not even cry..I dont' regret because I know that in the long run they are going to be glad I did it..I have a friend who did not and eneded up doing it to her son at 9yrs old because he will get a lot of infections..In the end is up to you. I am sure whatever you decided will be fine. Good luck
Tuty
2006-10-11 15:07:30 UTC
I have two boys and both of theme were circumcised, the doctors did before we went home form the hospital.



I'm not sure on the different is nowadays.



You can call your babies doctors and ask theme if they numb it and all the other question you may have.



It's best for you to decide for your self if it's something you want for you child.



My mom was like yeah you should but my dad said no that I was making theme a man before they become a man. whatever that meant.
Lesley P
2006-10-11 15:22:21 UTC
I had my son circumsized at about 12 days old...he's 8 now and there have been no problems at all with it. As long as it's done by a professional doc, there shouldn't be any concern whatsoever. It's up to you as his mom though, good luck!
jakesmom
2006-10-11 15:04:03 UTC
Get it done, now. My son was circumcised when he was 2 days old. Yes it looks awful but, in no time it heals and everything is fine. You have to keep gauze on it w/ some ointment for the first few days then its fine.





My Dad was 13 when he had it done and he swore that if he and my Mom had a boy they would get it done asap.
mommycat
2006-10-12 02:19:23 UTC
You should get it done. They do numb it and it stays numb for a little while afterwards. It is a lot easier to clean. Just remember that he'll never remember it.
Keith Perry
2006-10-11 15:09:10 UTC
I had my son circumcised the day after he was born. I do not regret it. In my opinion I think it should be done.



I know if they are not circumcised they can set up infections if not cleaned properly as a child and as an adult.



I know someone who is married to a man who is not circumcised and she is agrees with me. She loves him, dont get me wrong, but she thinks it would be best if he was circumcised.



My son had no problems after being circumcised. He was fine. It is best to do it while they are young (if you are going to go through with it).
Sqrlll
2006-10-11 15:03:47 UTC
My son was circumcised the day after he was born. the only thing I would say is different these days is that they don't take off nearly as much skin. Maybe its just my Dr. but other moms have said the same thing.
Rosey55 D
2006-10-11 15:12:50 UTC
Yes. Do it before they turn a month old. I have to pay for my son's circumcision out of pocket and it going to be exspencive and he is 5 months old. In my opinion, I think it is a good thing to get him circumcised, because of what I read. I have read that they get infections more often.
anonymous
2006-10-11 15:07:44 UTC
there is absolutly no medical reason to have it done. The forskin is there for a reason why remove it. If it was not needed men would not be born with it. How would you like it if someone removed the top part of your ear or your pinky toe?
techdogg_98
2006-10-11 16:33:38 UTC
Yes you should get him circumcised, because it cuts down on infections. It not that big of a deal , and it Will benefit him.
Candi S
2006-10-11 15:33:00 UTC
i also had my sons done it the hospital before i left.

but you can have it done in any peds office.

you have to request the pain meds.,dont just assume they are givin.My ped said if it is not requested it isnt given.my son had a local and tylenol afterward,he came back to me 10 min. later not even crying.If you feel it should be done do it while he is still young.

congrats and good luck :)
Apple21
2006-10-11 15:08:51 UTC
I had my son's done a few days before he left the hospital. He was about 2 weeks old. Do it now before he gets any older. It's quick! Yes, it's painful, but when they bring him back, just hold him and nurse him immediately. He'll be fine.
little_outlaw_angel
2006-10-11 15:11:52 UTC
cindy

i have a 4 year old son i had it done when he was a few days old all my brothers are done..i know a family freind who wasnt and he had infections and nowoman wanted anything to do with that thing as he put it so at 38 he went in had it done it hurt but he said well worth it and wished his mama had done it when he was a baby ..so for health reasons yes please have your son done soon they cry for a second then there ok...i have a lot of friends having babys or with kids my boys age and there all circumsized ...please do it for sake of your son...hope i helped a lil...Dusty
kajunprincezz
2006-10-11 15:04:03 UTC
on the advice of a 13 year old neighbor boy who had to be circumsized in the middle of the school year due to health concerns, i had my son circumsized. he said you have no idea how embarassed he was going to school with everyone knowing that he had had to have that done.

my son was a premiee and they did it anyway with no problems, and he never once complained about it when we cleaned it. you're overthinking. it needs to be done so do it.
TRUE PATRIOT
2006-10-11 15:05:33 UTC
Yes, do it now. Usually you won't be in the same room when they do it. It is so much healthier for the baby in the long run.

They numb the baby so it won't hurt as much.
jamietogood
2006-10-11 15:02:32 UTC
must have it done for him , he will enjoy life so much more if you no what i mean plus big time health issues if u dont , much cleaner also
croc hunter fan
2006-10-11 15:17:09 UTC
What is circumcision?



Male circumcision is an elective surgery to remove the foreskin (prepuce), a fold of skin that covers and protects the rounded tip of the penis (glans). This surgery is most commonly done on newborns about 24 hours old. See an illustration of the penis before and after circumcision.



If a baby is born early (premature) or has certain medical conditions, he may be circumcised when he is somewhat older. Circumcision may also be done in older boys and men to treat problems with the foreskin of the penis (such as phimosis and paraphimosis) or for inflammation of the tip of the penis (balanitis).



This topic focuses on the circumcision of newborns.



In 1999, about 65% of all male babies born in hospitals in the United States were circumcised. 1 But this rate varies depending on where you live. In some parts of the United States about half of all males are circumcised, while other parts of the country have higher circumcision rates.



Who performs circumcisions?



Circumcisions usually are done by a pediatrician, obstetrician, family medicine doctor, surgeon, or urologist. However, ritual circumcision may be done by others trained in the procedure, such as mohels of the Jewish faith.



Should I have my son circumcised?



Circumcision is not medically necessary. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) does not recommend circumcision as a routine procedure for newborn males. When making this policy, the AAP considered the possible health benefits of circumcision, such as a lower risk for urinary tract infections (UTIs) in the first year of life. The AAP also considered the risks and costs of the procedure when making this policy. 2



When you make this decision, it may help you to think about your personal and cultural preferences. For example, you may want to consider your family and religious traditions while you weigh the benefits and risks of the surgery. It is your decision whether to have your son circumcised.



What problems can develop if my son is circumcised?



Problems from circumcision are rare. If they occur, they are usually minor. The most common circumcision problems are pain, bleeding, infection of the circumcision site and at the opening of the urethra, and irritation of the exposed tip of the penis. Long-term problems are even rarer but can include damage to the opening of the urethra, excessive bleeding that requires stitches, severe infection, or scarring and other problems from surgical error.



Why It Is Done



Circumcision is performed on newborns mainly for cultural reasons. For example, parents may make the decision about circumcision based on religious and family traditions, personal preferences, or the social norms within their communities. It is also important to consider the benefits and risks of the procedure.



Should I have my son circumcised?

Circumcision is not medically necessary. There may be some slight health benefits for circumcised males. But medical experts in the United States generally agree that these health benefits alone are not significant reasons to have circumcision. A 1999 study by the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) Task Force on Circumcision concluded that circumcision should not be recommended as a routine procedure for newborn males. Before making this recommendation, the task force looked at the possible health benefits of circumcision, such as a lower risk for urinary tract infections (UTIs) in the first year and a lower risk for getting STDs. 2



In the first year of life, urinary tract infections (UTIs) happen less often in circumcised boys than in boys who are not circumcised. 3, 4 But UTIs are not common. Researchers in one large study concluded that the lower risk for UTIs is not significant enough to justify circumcision when balanced against the risk of bleeding and infection from circumcision surgery. 4 About 111 boys would need to be circumcised to prevent one UTI. About 2 out of 100 boys (2%) have bleeding or infection after circumcision. 4 Circumcision is more clearly a health benefit if a boy has a history of UTIs or is at a higher risk for developing UTIs (such as if his urinary tract is not normal). 3, 4

Some studies have shown that circumcised males are a little less likely than males who have not been circumcised to get a sexually transmitted disease (STD), including HIV. 5, 6 But circumcision should not be done to prevent STDs or HIV. All men who have high-risk sex can get STDs or HIV, regardless of whether they are circumcised. It is most effective to prevent STDs by teaching people about risk factors and the importance of practicing low-risk sexual behavior. 3 Male circumcision to help prevent HIV is more likely to be considered in areas where the disease is common and safe sex is not widely practiced. 3, 6

In the past, circumcision was considered necessary when a newborn's foreskin could not be retracted (phimosis). Now, however, this condition is considered normal because the foreskin of newborns is still developing. By age 5, about 90% of boys who have not been circumcised can retract the foreskin of the penis without any problems. 2 (In rare cases the foreskin of the natural penis [uncircumcised] cannot be retracted after a boy has reached puberty, in which case circumcision may be recommended.)



Do not have your baby circumcised if he has a medical condition that makes him more likely to have problems from the procedure. For example, do not have your baby circumcised if he:



Is sick or in an unstable condition (such as not eating well, having difficulty passing urine or stool, or having difficulty maintaining his body temperature).

Has any abnormality of the penis, such as having the opening of the urethra on the side of the penis shaft instead of on the tip of his penis (hypospadias or epispadias). Your baby may need to have an intact foreskin so that this irregularity can be surgically corrected when he is older.

Has swelling or protrusion of the spinal cord (myelomeningocele or spina bifida).

Has an abnormal opening of the rectum (anus).

Has a family history of bleeding difficulties (blood tests should be done to confirm that the baby does not have this problem).

Was born prematurely and is not yet able to go home.



What Happens During a Circumcision



Circumcision for a newborn is usually done by a health professional at a clinic, in the hospital, or at an outpatient surgery center. During the procedure:



The newborn is placed on a firm surface, often called a papoose board. Velcro straps are wrapped around the newborn's arms and legs to keep him very still during the procedure.

The penis is cleaned.

The surgical area is numbed with a local anesthetic while the baby remains awake. Local anesthetics include ring block, penile nerve block (dorsal penile nerve block or DPNB), or EMLA cream. General anesthesia may be used for males older than 2 to 3 months of age. When the baby is under general anesthesia, a caudal nerve block may be applied to provide postoperative pain relief.

A sterile circumcision clamp or device is placed over the head of the penis. The three most common types of clamps used are the Gomco clamp, the Mogen clamp, and the Plastibell device. Each clamp has advantages and disadvantages, although differences between the clamps are often minor. Most doctors use the clamp they are most comfortable with.

The foreskin is removed using a sterile scalpel or scissors.



What to Expect After Surgery



After the circumcision, the groin, penis, and scrotum may appear reddish brown because of the solution used to clean the skin before surgery. The shaft of the penis where the skin was removed will look raw and slightly swollen. This tender appearance should gradually disappear in the next few days.



Your baby will be observed for 2 to 4 hours after the procedure. Health professionals will check his penis for excessive bleeding, and the circumcision area may be dressed with petroleum jelly and gauze. If gauze is used, it stays on for about 24 hours. When the gauze is removed, it should first be soaked in warm water and then gently loosened.



During recovery after surgery, it is common for:



The baby to have pain while urinating. It is often painful when healing skin comes in contact with urine and stool. This pain usually fades within 3 or 4 days but may persist for up to 2 weeks. Keep in mind that even though your baby's penis will usually start feeling better after 3 days, it may look worse. The penis will usually look like it's getting better at around 7 to 10 days after the procedure.

The baby to be irritable. Your baby may not sleep as well and may seem fussy while the circumcision site heals.

A thin yellow film to form over the circumcision site the day after surgery. This is part of the normal healing process and should disappear in a few days.

Stitches (sutures) are not used for infant circumcision. Sutures are used when circumcision is done on an older child or adult.



Care after circumcision



You can help make your baby feel comfortable and heal more quickly by:



Gently washing the penis with warm water after each diaper change. Soap is not recommended. Do not attempt to remove the film that forms on the penis. This film will go away on its own. Pat dry.

Applying petroleum jelly (such as Vaseline) liberally to raw areas on the head and/or shaft of the penis during each diaper change. The petroleum jelly prevents the scab from sticking to the diaper.

Making sure diapers are fastened loosely to decrease irritation of the penis.

Ask your health professional about giving your baby acetaminophen (such as Tylenol) for pain control after the procedure.



Older children and adults may resume their normal activities soon after surgery, avoiding anything irritating or painful to the penis.



When to Call a Doctor



Your son's penis will be examined during routine well-baby visits. However, it is important to call your health professional if problems develop after circumcision.



Call your doctor immediately if your circumcised baby:



Is younger than 3 months of age and has a fever.

Develops signs of infection of the penis or around the circumcision site. Signs may include severe swelling, redness, a red streak on the shaft of the penis, or a thick, yellow discharge.

Bleeds more than the doctor said to expect or has a bloodstained area larger than the size of a bottle cap on his diaper or on the circumcision site dressing.

Is extremely fussy or irritable, has a high-pitched cry, or refuses to eat.

Has not passed urine within 12 hours after the circumcision was completed.

If a Plastibell device was used for the circumcision, call your health professional if the ring has not fallen off after 10 to 12 days.



Risks



Complications from circumcision are rare. Minor complications are usually short-term and may include: 2, 3



Pain. A baby may experience obvious pain when he urinates for the first time after surgery. Pain may continue for up to 2 weeks, whenever the healing skin comes in contact with urine and stool. But usually the most noticeable pain goes away within 3 or 4 days. Keep in mind that even though your baby's penis starts feeling better after 3 days, it may look worse. The penis will usually look like it's healing at around 7 to 10 days after the procedure.

Oozing or slight bleeding from the surgical site.

Infection of the circumcision site or at the opening to the urethra (urinary meatitis).

Irritation of the exposed tip of the penis (glans) as a result of contact with stool and/or urine. You may help prevent this type of discomfort by applying petroleum jelly to the head of the penis.

Long-term minor complications are also rare but can include: 2, 3



Damage to the opening of the urethra, which leads from the bladder to the tip of the penis (meatal stenosis).

Loss of sensitivity in the penis. Some men circumcised later in life have reported that they lost sexual sensation in the penis after surgery.

Scarring of the penis from infection or surgical error. For example:

The entire foreskin may not be removed, leaving portions of it attached to the penis (skin bridge). This may cause pain during erection.

Scar tissue can grow outward toward the tip of the penis from the cut edge of the foreskin. Repeat surgery on the penis may be required to improve appearance or to allow normal passage of urine if the opening from the bladder has been blocked by this scar tissue.

The outer skin layer (or layers) of the penis may be removed accidentally.

An opening that is too small for the foreskin to retract over the penis (phimosis) can occur if too little foreskin is removed.

Major complications are extremely rare but can include: 2, 3



A complete removal of the skin covering the shaft of the penis, causing the penis to appear to have been completely surgically removed (concealed penis).

Excessive bleeding. Stitches may be required to stop the bleeding.

Serious, life-threatening bacterial infection in body tissue and the blood (sepsis).

Partial or full removal (amputation) of the tip of the penis (extremely rare).



How Well It Works



Your baby's penis usually starts feeling better within about 3 to 4 days after being circumcised. Your newborn may be fussy and irritable and have trouble sleeping during these first few days. He may feel pain when urinating for the first time after the procedure. Also, for about 2 weeks, it can be painful whenever urine or stool touches the tip of the penis. Keep in mind that even though your baby's penis starts feeling better after 3 days, it may look worse. The penis will usually look like it's healing at around 7 to 10 days after the procedure.



You will usually take your baby home the same day he is circumcised. Some swelling around the penis is normal in the first few days after the surgery. Some slight bleeding may occur. If this happens, apply direct but gentle pressure to the area with a clean cloth or bandage for about 5 to 10 minutes.



Gently wash the area when needed with warm water. Soap is not recommended.

Put petroleum jelly, such as Vaseline, around the circumcised area. The petroleum jelly prevents the scab from sticking to the diaper.

Give your baby acetaminophen for pain. Talk to your doctor about how much and how often you should give your baby this medicine. Call your doctor anytime your baby seems to be in a lot of pain.

You may notice a yellow, scabby area around the penis. This lasts about 3 to 5 days and will gradually go away as the skin heals.



What to Think About



As a parent, you will decide whether you want your infant to be circumcised. Discuss and consider this option before your baby is born. If you wait, the excitement and fatigue of the delivery can affect your ability to carefully consider the benefits and risks of having your son circumcised. For more information, see:



Should I have my son circumcised?

If you decide that you would like to have your newborn circumcised, discuss your concerns and preferences before the procedure. Make it very clear to your doctor that you want pain relief for your baby during his circumcision. Talk to your doctor about which type of anesthesia is best for your baby, such as a ring block, dorsal penile nerve block (DPNB), or EMLA cream.



Also ask your health professional about giving your baby acetaminophen (such as Tylenol) for pain control after the procedure.



Whether you have your son circumcised or not, it is important to keep the penis clean. When cleaning a natural (uncircumcised) penis, be careful not to force the foreskin to retract. As your son gets older, make sure you teach him how to wash and care for his penis.


This content was originally posted on Y! Answers, a Q&A website that shut down in 2021.
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