Question:
wine for a baby at a bris/circumcision is it symbolic or does it have an effect?
me4free
2008-07-06 15:14:55 UTC
A friend of mine was recently at a bris and was telling me about how they gave wine to the baby to clam it afterwards. I have been to a couple brises and always though that the wine was symbolic not actually to dull the babies senses. we got into an argument over this. My friends argument was it had to be the wine because after they gave it to him it shut up. they filled a gauze with wine and gave it to the baby to suck on. I felt that, that sounded like one of those old wives tales something that has fuzzy logic and could potentially be true but most likely isn't. I argued that simply the act of sucking on anything would have calmed the baby for the same reason babies suck on their fingers or a pacifier as an artificial tit to calm them. While I can see the fuzzy logic behind using alcohol to calm the baby i would imagine it is entirely symbolic and the amount of wine/alcohol that would be necessary to have the effect my friend described would be very dangerous to an 8 day old baby.
Four answers:
2008-07-06 20:33:10 UTC
I've heard they do use it as an attempt to dull the pain but I doubt it's very effective. It's probably symbolic too. Either way circumcision without anaesthetic is a cruel thing to do to a baby (as it circumcision with anaesthetic).
Fedup Veteran
2008-07-06 22:21:21 UTC
It has the same "religious" affect as sucking on the penis to stop the bleeding (yes, they do indeed do this at bris)



It is to keep the baby quiet and calm the babies nerves. How would you feel if you got cut in the private area? It is dangerous and based on gender equality should be outlawed like it is for girls.



EDIT: and no it wouldn't take that much to have an effect on the baby...they can't even take a tiny amount of Tylenol without being affected!
young hee lee
2008-07-06 22:24:56 UTC
The baby does ingest some of the wine, and the effects of the alcohol are magnified because the baby is metabolically sensitive (like when you've never had a drink before, and it affects you more than it would if you were someone who drinks every day). It is both practical and symbolic.



hope this helps
2008-07-06 22:25:28 UTC
Sorry but this makes me cringe!! Poor child.


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